The keys to a
long lasting peaceful and blissful relationship or marriage are based on the
foundations below, as you digest them make up your mind to live by them and you
will forever be grateful to God.
Be prayerful and close to God:
The institution of
marriage was established by God himself , he saw the need for companionship and
togetherness so he said that it is not good that Man should be alone hence he
made him a help mate, your spouse or partner is your help mate it is a two way
streak.True relationship must be established on oneness of body and spirit stay connected to your
spouse and creator remember in him we live, move and have our being .A family
that prays together stays together!
Trust:
Trust in a marriage is
a prerequisite for a happy and peaceful home ,trusting your partner or spouse
is a recipe for long lasting love and happiness , it is a decision that has to
be taken by you and you alone . you make up your mind to believe whatever the other
partner tells you and dont ever believe or think otherwise or hear from another
source until your spouse approaches you to confirm or deny, trust
your partner hook, line and sinker so that you will have a peaceful home and
you will be able to sleep without any burden heavy in your heart.
1.
Be your spouse’s best friend:
Be your spouse’s best friend:
2. A true relationship is about
more than just sex be expressive and care about your spouse’s business , engage
him /her everyday and show keen interest in what the other partner does, know about
what he/she likes doing how he spends his time in the office, church, events he
likes going to ,what he has passion doing besides loving you of course (lol).
3. Love what he/she loves at least show interest and be ready to
go the extra mile just to be with your spouse. There are so many things to talk
about let your spouse be your best friend he/she will always be looking forward
to seeing you again if away from home.
Stay intimate:
Physical contact in a strong relationship should
involve more than just actual sex, make love to your spouse passionately as is
pleasing to God. Your spouse was made to complete you even the book of proverbs
says “let her breast satisfy thee at all
times and be thou ravished always with her love” so be content with your spouse.
Always be willing and ready to meet each others needs and desires. Make her look exactly the way you have
imagined and that will be pleasing to you both, as you behold her daily her beauty
glows and radiates Gods glory and splendor
5.
Do not cheat:
6. Avoid potential cheating traps be content with
your spouse and stay focused its not all that glitters that is gold,
contentment and faithfulness to your spouse and to God. I have always told
people that I counsel the fact that you stay faithful and focused to your
partner or spouse is not only an expression of your love but most especially is
an expression of your loyalty to the one that you serve in my case the Almighty
God , so it’s a demonstration of your love and devotion to him so you cannot
bring yourself low to cheat on your partner , remember that he that lays with
an harlot is one spirit and what good can possibly come out of that, be wise!
4.
5.
Keep your promises, they are Golden!:
Keep your promises, they are Golden!:
As a man or woman your word should be your
bond . Let your spouse be able to vouch that your promise does not fail
concerning him or her , so ensure you keep your word and do not make promises
that you cannot keep its better not to make one than not to keep it when made.
Be a man or Woman of integrity as your life goes in the direction of your words!.
Be a man or Woman of integrity as your life goes in the direction of your words!.
Stay tuned to this blog for regular counsel on how to stay in your relationship or Marriage.
Michael O @cocoinsights
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